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posted : Wednesday, April 30, 2008
title : frustration toleranc



Have you ever seen someone get angry at a computer when it froze and would not function? How did they behave? Every new technology seems to bring with it a certain amount of frustration, particularly for those with low frustration tolerance.

Frustration tolerance refers to the quality of a person's performance on a task or during information processing when frustration occurs. When a person becomes very frustrated, the frustration can interfere with the performance of the task. Those with high tolerance are not as easily frustrated. Frustration tolerance can be measured with the Picture-Frustration Study by Rosenzweig.

Little research has been done on this trait. It has been found that high frustration students have difficulty with trial and error situations in which they receive little guidance from the instructor. One approach is to start out by giving the learner easy problems to solve and providing lots of feedback, and then once success occurs, gradually increasing the difficulty level and reducing the guidance.

The technology involved in distance learning may be frustrating to students at first, especially when the technology does not work the way it's supposed to. By helping students to troubleshoot and solve the problem, you can reduce their frustration levels. Another tactic is to discuss at the first class how the technology works, what might go wrong, and what to do if something goes wrong. When students know what to expect or understand why something is happening, their frustration will diminish.

The delayed response involved in asynchronous communication may also lead to frustration if students are waiting a long time for feedback.

Distance learning students who succeed have been shown in some studies to be both self-confident and persistent. It is possible that they also have a high tolerance for frustration.


posted :
title : fashion feather
My friends and I went to mall yesterday because my friends mom asked us for a favor, she told us to find some ostrich feathers for her custume, we cant find what she asked for, the sales lady told us are you looking forFeathers maybe this one can help you with your problems, they also offer ostrich farming consultancy. this site is very helpful for my friend's mom beacause they also searching for ostrich farming consultant for her husband.

posted : Tuesday, April 29, 2008
title : good advice for girls

i just felt like i really have to repost this,it made alot of sense to me, i mean not only for me but for all the girl's out there we have to think and realize this article..


Good advices for girls

1. A man won't let go if he really loves you.

Do not hold on to someone who has let
go of you
. He does not love you and
does not value having you. Believe me,
he will not let go if he really loves
you. There is another reason he is not
willing to tell.

2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the relationship.


There is only one reason why he ended
your relationship. He just does not
love you. Do not waste your time
thinking of reasons or what you should
have done. Move on and be open to a
man who will truly love you.


3. Do not get hung up on your past.

Do not nag or distrust your current
boyfriend just because your ex hurt
you. Do not treat him or the
relationship the same way. Do not
compare. He will not react the same
way as your ex. Do not be worried that
your simple mistakes will cause him to
look for another girl. What happened
with your ex was not your fault. It
was not because you didn't guard him
enough or you didn't make him happy
enough.

4. Do not look into images.

How many times have you met a girl who
didn't have the best image in school
or at the office, but you get to know
the girl and found out she was
actually extremely nice? Do not rely
on images. Oftentimes, it is far from
reality. Do not fear men just because
your "supposedly" perfect ex-boyfriend
mistreated you.


5. Always have your own set of rules.

Set your limits on how far you'd go
for a guy. It's perfectly ok to give
and do everything as long as it's
worth it. And it's worth it if the guy
is treating you right.

6. Do not be scared to lose him.

Don't be scared that he'll break up
with you. Once you are afraid of
losing him, you easily can be taken
advantage. Be strong and if something
is unacceptable, do not accept it and
speak up.


7. Avoid calling your guy.

It's a guy thing. The relationship
will definitely be better if it's the
guy who's calling, not the girl. He
will get tired of you if you keep on
calling. He will lose interest and
challenge. More
so, he will get annoyed. But it's a
girl thing also that your fingers get
too itchy until you dial his number.
But avoid as much as possible. Call
only if really needed (like checking
if your suspicions are reasonable).

8. There is a guy who will value you.

There is a guy out there who can make
you feel valued, appreciated, and
loved. And I mean, not just during
your first few weeks together. So
don't lose hope. Don't settle for a
lesbian if you are not attracted to
women. There is a man out there who
can love you like a girl can.
Also, do not believe him when he says
it's just the way he really is. He's
not the sweet or expressive-type.
Remember during your first few weeks
together? Where has that sweet guy
gone? He simply is not that into you
anymore.


9. Always be the only one, no matter what.

Do not ever fall for a guy who has
another girl, be it his wife,
girlfriend, or any girl
that he says
he just can't get rid of for whatever
reason. If you truly believe that he
loves you and for some reason, he
can't leave or let go of another girl,
then you are no different from any
ordinary mistress.

10. He must respect you.

No matter how long the relationship
has been, he should always show
respect towards you.


11. If he fooled you, end it.

Philandering once is enough. You can
never trust nor respect the person
again.

12. Never start a relationship the
wrong way.

Do not steal another girl's man, for
whatever reason. Nor should you enter
a relationship for the wrong reasons
(loneliness, on the rebound, getting
back at your ex, man-dependency, etc.)
it is bound not to last. You will only
end up wasting more years of your life.


13. Do not force yourself into a relationship.

Do not get into a relationship just
because your friends are getting
impatient with your dating escapades
and the one hasn't come yet. Do not
choose who to say yes to based on
superficial things like money, looks,
cars, etc.. If you are even thinking
of these things, you have not fallen
in love yet.

14. Do not settle.

If you are not happy anymore with your
relationship, break up instantly. He
will not stay with you forever no
matter how upright he might seem to
be. Eventually, he will also want love
and happiness in his life.


15. A relationship has to have love.

Love is the only thing that will push
you to give your efforts into making
the relationship work. And believe me,
keeping a relationship requires
genuine efforts of both parties.

16. Don't be afraid to be single.

It's fun to be single, try it. You can
go out whenever and wherever you want.
You are free. You can date whomever
you want and you get to go out for
free! Do not get a boyfriend just for
the sake of having one. Do not settle.


17. Be a good girl.

Be a good girl to attract a good guy.
Enter the relationship with sincere
intentions. Take the guy and the
relationship seriously with the plan
of spending the rest of your life with
that person (of course, this is after
you had your bit of fun in your
younger years). If you compare your
flings from your real relationships,
you will know that the latter makes
you happier and more fulfilled.

18. Love without limits.

Whether you loved and gave everything
or loved but held out for some things,
if the relationship ends, you still
get hurt. But if you gave your
everything, you were happy and you
could say that it was worth it. If you
didn't give your all, you get hurt for
nothing.


19.
You will get over him

Love is over-stated. Love eventually
ends and you are free to love another.

20. Be the one.

Act like you are the one. Don't be a
nagger. Don't hinder his gimmicks.
Don't give in to him too easily. Make
him treat you as important. Don't be
easy. Don't be like every other girl
he had in his life.



posted : Sunday, April 27, 2008
title : How Are You Good to Yourself?
you're good to yourself when you Pamper Yourself

Can you even think of anything nicer than a day sitting on your behind doing absolutely nothing besides asking an obliging waiter for another cold drink, or maybe hitting a glamorous spa for an all-out treatment? Of course not! Your idea of taking care of yourself is putting your mind at ease and your body at rest. Easygoing and (mostly) at peace with your body, you're the kind of person who likes to relax more than work up a sweat. And why not?

Sure you can put your nose to the grindstone at work or suffer small deprivations if you absolutely have to, but you'd much rather live the good life. So give yourself a hand because when it comes to the greatest duty of all — being good to yourself — you've got it going on!

i took this test earlier because of boredome kills me anyway's the result is kinda true =]

posted : Saturday, April 26, 2008
title : no more hiatus
i have no reason for being "HIATUS" anymore, like what I've wrote on my previous blog I've been approved by PPP, I'm freaking glad about it Big thank's to my sister
so yea here's a screenshot of my email




posted :
title : Welcome PPP!
Today is a great day! You want to know why? Because I just got approved by PPP! Yes, by the leading paid blogging site of course! After waiting for so long to get approve finally, just got an email from them a few hours ago informing me that this blog just got approved and ready for monetization! As you may not asked, I've been wanting to work for the largest blog network in the web today since my sister started earning some great amount of money from writing and doing paid write opportunities, imagine for a short period of time she was able to buy herself a dslr and some stuff she herself didn't imagine she can afford, all for the love of paid write ups and blurbs over her blog. So now, since I am already into this thing, you guys would be expecting a lot of stories and some posts with connection to my side line work! Oh I just can't wait to snag the greens and whites over the PPP site! I am so excited can you tell? so if you would like to learn more of this thing, holler me up and we can do the talking! :)


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posted : Friday, April 25, 2008
title : for my lovely ladies

IF A MAN WANTS YOU


If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is
stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.


Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?


Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.


You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.


Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Domnot make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.


Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man.


Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.


You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.


You need time to heal between relationships...............there is nothing cute about

baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.


Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and


your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.


Share this with other ladies.....


You'll make someone SMILE, another


RETHINK her choices, and another woman


PREPARE.


They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.


posted :
title : hate letter agains flip
Letter Against Filipinos

Please take time to read this, most especially the bottom part, PATRICIA
EVANGELISTA' s (19 year old Filipina) speech that won in a WORLD
competition in London .


This is a hate letter coming from a radio talk show host Mr. Art Bell from
Nevada . I dont consider myself as patriotic but please read my reply below
in BOLD LETTERS and send this to as many of your friends as possible

until it reaches him.



Subject: HATE LETTER


This is a very disturbing open E-mail letter to all Filipinos around the
world; specially here in North America !, from a man who has the power to
reach millions of people. (he's a radio talk host)




Please read on.......... ....



This is an open letter email by Art Bell, a radio talk show host in Nevada
(more info in the email itself). Here is yet another person who has taken;
advantage of his power and privilege to use hateful words and racial
stereotypes that breed further ignorance and intolerance in our society.

Art Bell is a talk radio host who has two shows that he broadcasts from his
home in Nevada , that is rebroadcast by 400 stations across the country.



He's written 2 books. He lived in Okinawa , Japan for some years and had a
radio program on the English station here. And, though it's hard to believe
after reading the following letter from him, he actually has been to the
Philippines (he's traveled fairly extensively around the world).



Check out his website listed at the end to get a glimpse at this fool who's
spreading this hateful ignorance. And check his wife as well. This letter
is so degrading, I think it's really important that everybody read this and
not attack him, but respond to him in a civilized manner because otherwise
his thoughts will be reaffirmed. Understand that not everyone has a
viewpoint like we do, and that this is an opinion of someone who hopefully
can be changed only by civil actions.


~*~


Filipinos... ..*make me puke* (Art Bell)

As we've all come to notice, in the past few decades, Filipinos have begun
to infest the United States like some sort of disease. Their extensive
involvement in the U.S. Armed Forces is proof of the trashy kind of
qualities all filipinos tend to exhibit on a regular basis. You can see
this clearly by studying the attitudes and cultural Icons of most Filipino
Americans.

Origins of Pinoys/Pinays:

Are they really asian? Well we've come to accept the fact the filipinos
come from a part of the world known as South East Asia . But the term '
Asia ' is used in the wrong way. You may notice that contemporary Filipino
Americans try very hard to associate themselves with groups that we know as
Asian. I cannot count the number of times I have seen a ' Third World '
Filipino try to connect themselves to the chinese or Japanese people. There
is no connection and here's why. The Philippines is a Third World country.
Nothing respectable has EVER been created by Filipino people during our
entire human history. Young filipino men in America have become obsessed
with 'import racing'. They have an enormously perverted affection for
Japanese cars. It's a common phenomenon. In their minds, these Filipinos
somehow believe that they are asian and that it somehow connects them to
Japanese people and japanese cars. They often take credit for the ingenuity
of Japanese people and say how it's an ' Asian thing'. This term...'Asian
thing' derived directly from African American slang 'black thang'. 'It's a
black thang.' 'It's an asian thang.'

You can see the connection. It's even funnier that, in Japan , Filipinos
are heavily discriminated against. The only filipinos that can live
successfully in Japan are the filipino prostitutes. (Oh, come on! As if his kind don't! You keep hearing things about a sexual relationship between a student and a teacher, a PRIEST whole molests young girls and husbands and wives cheating on each other.) But that's the case for most Filipino people
no matter where they live in the world. Now we've come
down to this fact...and it is a fact.

Nothing in Filipino Culture can be seen as Asian.

They have no architectural, artistic, or cultural influence which is in ANY
way, asian. Thinking of the great countries in Asia such as Japan , Korea ,
and China there is no way you can possibly connect the Philippine Islands.
This assault by filipino americans to connect themselves with the great
peoples of North East Asia is foul and disgusting. Try visiting a young
filipino's web site too.

You'll see something called the 'Asian IRC Ring'. It has to do with the
chatrooms. The most horrible thing about this is that these TRASHY people
are trying to associate themselves with Asia again!! People in Asia don't
act like this at all. What we are seeing here is the natural Filipino in
its element with full access to technology and this is how they act! You
will consistently see this behavior over and over again.

Another interesting thing is that these 'thirdworld' people also frequent
RC chatrooms such as #chinese #japan and #asian. They must believe that
they are somehow related racially or culturally to North Asians. But it's
completely WRONG! There might have been some distant contact With China and
even less with Japan during World War II, but these people are actually
more closely related to african americans and Mexican americans.

Do the parents of these young filipinos know what's going on? Would they
accept this? I believe that they would and do. This is the natural 'Trash'
element in filipinos manifesting itself. Nothing good has ever come from
Philippines and I don't believe anything good ever will.

Recognizing your Roots (A Message to Filipinos). To all filipino people:
Please recognize your ROOTS! You come from the Third World! You country is
a disgusting and filthy place. Most people there live in poverty! Your
culture has MUCH MORE SPANISH influence than chinese, and absolutely no
JAPANESE influence whatsoever. People in Japan and China , do not act like
you. They do not constantly talk about sex and they have a MUCH HIGHER
level of RESPECT for each other. There is NO WAY that you can connect
yourself to Asia other than location.

Your culture and technological advancement does no! t even come CLOSE to
What Chinese, people have done in the past and what Japanese and Korean
people are doing now! Everything you do is distinctly filipino. You cannot
take credit for Japanese cars, video games, or Hentai! It's not an 'asian
thing' it's an 'American thing'. You have no concept of culture...no
concept of asian ideas or asian philosophy! Can you demonstrate how you use
Confucianism or Taoism in you everyday life?? You can't. And you will NEVER
be able to.

I understand that you are trying to create an identity for yourselves as
young people... but it is NOT related to Asia . Your Identity is Filipino.
That's all you are. Just Filipino. Think about what that means....



the following are the comments made by some filipinos who read the article.


COMMENT 1:

I find this funny, he is right in some ways where we, as Filipinos don't
actually have an 'Identity'. I think this is due to the confusion of our
mixed races from Hispanic, Chinese, American and Malay origins. I see it in
malls, imagine young generations wearing ski caps and ski goggles in a
tropical country, baggy low rise pants like that of African Americans
living in the Bronx of New York, not to mention endless whitening products
being sold at department stores and drug stores.

But his ignorance also blinds him from the other truth. That while we may
glorify Anime shows and Japanese Internet gaming, he is not aware that a
nameless Filipino may be responsible for some technical aspects of some
Japanese software. He is not aware of our contribution to the the society
in general .Technological advancements that may have aided post war
navigations and landing on the moon. That the antibiotic Erythromycin was
discovered by Dr. Abelardo Aguilar from Iloilo creating the brand
'Ilosone'.

Thomas Edison may have discovered the electric light bulb and the
fluorescent lighting was thought up by Nikola Tesla. But the fluorescent
lamp we use today was invented by Agapito Flores (a Cebuano named Benigno
Flores of Bantayan Island, according to the Philippine Daily inquirer), a
Filipino scientist. Americans helped then-Philippine leader Ramon Magsaysay
to develop it for worldwide commerce. That the personal physician of former
U.S. Pres. Bill Clinton is Eleanor 'Connie' Concepcion Mariano, a Filipina
doctor who was the youngest captain in the US Navy. A Filipino writer Jose
Rizal could read and write at age 2, and grew up to speak more than 20
languages, includind Latin, Greek, German, French and Chinese.

Or that a Filipino genius was responsible for the near hiatus in the
PENTAGON and White House nearly infiltrationg their closely guarded secrets
with the 'ILOVEYOU' bug. Nuisance maybe, but still one heck of a 'beautiful
mind'...not to be underestimated.

The list goes on and on, but who cares right? Certainly not Mr. Art
Bell...Boy, I'm not surprised.


COMMENT 2:

Perhaps Art Bell does not know that although we consider ourselves ASIAN
because we are strategically located in the Southeast asian region of which
our nearest neighbors are Malays, ASIA does not mean only Chinese and
Japanese race of people. Then maybe it is his connotation that 'Asia' meant
only our economically successful, paler brothers and he considers Malays
such as Thais, Malaysians, Indonesians, and ourselves as a ' Third World '
race. Then it is 'his' ignonimity that would make a civilized person of
whatever race puke. Imagine literally connecting Chinese, Koreans and
Japanese to the Philippine Islands which is archipelagos away from the
countries he has mentioned. I also wonder where he got the impression that
we aspire to be Japanese( ???). Hispanics maybe, but not the Japanese. But
even Hispanics today do not mind sharing their 'surnames' to their Asian
brothers who they have colonized for 3 centuries.

Another sad reality that although most Filipinos working overseas are
domestic helpers and prostitutes, who does he think educates the toddlers
of Hong Kong , Singapore , Taiwan and Tokyo ? Parents of these countries
rarely have time spent with their children, leaving them to their Filipino
nannies. And with regard to prostitution. Filipinos are not the only ones
working as one. I HARDLY SEE FILIPINOS STARRING IN PORN MOVIES. THERE MIGHT
BE A FEW FILIPINOS WE HAVEN'T SEEN , BUT MOST ARE FROM MR. ART BELL'S RACE.

He also mentioned that we have no concept of culture..no concept of asian
ideas or asian philosophy. How can we demonstrate Confucianism or Taoism in
a Christian nation? IS HE INFORMED THAT THE PHILIPPINES IS THE ONLY
PREDOMINANTLY CHRISTIAN/CATHOLIC NATION IN ASIA?! YOU HAVE TO USE COMMON
SENSE IN A LOT OF THINGS SOMETIMES...

COMMENT 3:

We do not need to create an identity for ourselves. We are who we are. Our
identity stems from the anonymity we live in this world. How we contribute
silently towards the progress of the world and not just one country.
Although the Filipino blood may be tainted with malice, corruption, poverty
and prostitution, it is not a perfect race... But so are the others. Maybe
Mr. Art Bell needs to think about this.

WE MAY NOT BE PERFECT MR. BELL BUT AT LEAST WE STILL HAVE VALUES. FOR ONE
THING WE DON'T PUT OUR AGING PARENTS IN NURSING HOMES BECAUSE 'THEY'RE
SIMPLY OLD AND WORTHLESS. WE DONT HAVE AS MUCH NUMBERS OF SINGLE MOTHERS
WHO GET PREGNANT IN THEIR VERY EARLY TEENS AND EVENTUALLY BECOME PARASITES
OF THE GOVERNMENT FOR YEARS AND YEARS.

YES...WE CAME TO YOUR COUNTRY TO WORK, TO EARN DECENT MONEY (HALF OF WHICH
BY THE WAY GOES TO TAXES BECAUSE THERE'S SO MANY SOCIAL PARASITES FROM YOUR
RACE). AND BY THE WAY, MOST EDUCATED PEOPLE THAT I WORK WITH DON'T COME FROM
YOUR RACE... THEY'RE ACTUALLY IMMIGRANTS TOO. AND THOSE EDUCATED ONES DO
NOT ACT LIKE YOU DO, PERHAPS BECAUSE THEY'VE REALLY BEEN WELL
EDUCATED..AFTER ALL THAT'S SAID... WHO IS THE IGNORANT ONCE AGAIN?!

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Pinay wins it big in London

By Alfred Yuson

The Philippine Star 05/16/2004


Patricia Evangelista, a 19-year- old, Mass Communications sophomore of
University of the Philippines (UP)-Diliman, did the country proud Friday
night by besting 59 other student contestants from 37 countries in the 2004
International Public Speaking competition conducted by the English Speaking
Union (ESU) in London .


She triumphed over a field of exactly 60 speakers from all over the
English-speaking world, including the United States , United Kingdom and
Australia , reported Maranan.


The board of judges' decision was unanimous, according to contest chairman
Brian Hanharan of the British broadcasting Corp. (BBC).



PATRICIA'S SHORT SPEECH WORTH READING....

------------ --------- --------- --------- --------- ---------

BLONDE AND BLUE EYES


When I was little, I wanted what many Filipino children all over the
country wanted. I wanted to be blond, blue-eyed, and white.

I thought -- if I just wished hard enough and was good enough, I'd wake
upon Christmas morning with snow outside my window and freckles across my
nose!

More than four centuries under western domination does that to you. I have
sixteen cousins. In a couple of years, there will just be five of us left
in the Philippines , the rest will have gone abroad in search of 'greener
pastures.' It's not just an anomaly; it's a trend; the Filipino diaspora.
Today, about eight million Filipinos are scattered around the world.

There are those who disapprove of Filipinos who choose to leave. I used to.
Maybe this is a natural reaction of someone who was left behind, smiling
for family pictures that get emptier with each succeeding year. Desertion,
I called it. My country is a land that has perpetually fought for the
freedom to be itself. Our heroes offered their lives in the struggle
against the Spanish, the Japanese, the Americans. To pack up and deny that
identity is tantamount to spitting on that sacrifice.

Or is it? I don't think so, not anymore. True, there is no denying this
phenomenon, aided by the fact that what was once the other side of the
world is now a twelve-hour plane ride away. But this is a borderless world,
where no individual can claim to be purely from where he is now. My mother
is of Chinese descent, my father is a quarter Spanish, and I call myself a
pure Filipino-a hybrid of sorts resulting from a combination of cultures.

Each square mile anywhere in the world is made up of people of different
ethnicities, with national identities and individual personalities. because
of this, each square mile is already a microcosm of the world. In as much
as this blessed spot that is England is the world, so is my neighborhood
back home.

Seen this way! , the Filipino Diaspora, or any sort of dispersal of
populations, is not as ominous as so many claim. It must be understood. I
come from a Third World country, one that is still trying mightily to get
back on its feet after many years of dictatorship. But we shall make it,
given more time. Especially now, when we have thousands of eager young
minds who graduate from college every year. They have skills. They need
jobs. We cannot absorb them all.

A borderless world presents a bigger opportunity, yet one that is not so
much abandonment but an extension of identity . Even as we take, we give
back. We are the 40,000 skilled nurses who support the UK's National Health
Service . We are the quarter-of-a- million seafarers manning most of the
world's commercial ships. We are your software engineers in Ireland , your
construction workers in the Middle East, your doctors and caregivers in
North America, and, your musical artists in London 's West End .

Nationalism isn't bound by time or place. People from other nations migrate
to create new nations, yet still remain essentially who they are. British
society is itself an example of a multi-cultural nation, a melting pot of
races, religions, arts and cultures. We are, indeed, in a borderless world!

Leaving sometimes isn't a matter of choice. It's coming back that is. The
Hobbits of the shire travelled all over Middle-Earth, but they chose to
come home, richer in every sense of the word. We call people like these
balikbayans or the 'returnees' -- those who followed their dream, yet
choose to return and share their mature talents and good fortune.

In a few years, I may take advantage of whatever opportunities come my way.
But I will come home. A borderless world doesn't preclude the idea of a
home. I'm a Filipino, and I'll always be one. It isn't about just
geography; it isn't about boundaries. It's about giving back to the country
that shaped me.

And that's going to be more important to me than seeing snow outside my
windows on a bright Christmas morning.

Mabuhay and Thank you.

So, be proud, you are a Filipino,... and not like Mr. Art Bell. Please do
send this to as many person as you can until it reaches him

posted :
title : kidz

Our little brat XD
<3 olin


olin and yana =]

posted :
title : baby jana
my college friend tinay gave birth last April 16, 2008 a beautiful baby girl her name JeorgeanaKrishane "jana" Salvador-Mollarca. I'm having a hard time pronouncing her name for real, i wasn't able to come with them last April 17 because my father is going back to America that day, so I grabbed some pictures form their multiply :)




mommy tinay =] and baby jana


baby Jana =]

I'm looking forward to see baby jana and tina

posted :
title : 2 warehouse retailers limit sales of rice
The two biggest U.S. warehouse retail chains are limiting how much rice customers can buy because of what Sam's Club, a division of Wal-Mart Stores, yesterday called “recent supply-and-demand trends.

The broader chain of Wal-Mart stores has no plans to limit food purchases, however.

The move comes as U.S. rice futures hit a record high amid global food inflation, although one rice expert said the warehouse chains may be reacting less to any shortages than to stockpiling by restaurants and small stores.

Sam's Club followed Costco Wholesale, which put limits in at least some Bay Area stores on bulk rice purchases.

Sam's Club declined to say if this is first time it has restricted sales of bulk foods. The chain is limiting customers to four 20-pound bags of imported jasmine, basmati and long-grain white rice.

Costco declined to discuss the issue yesterday. Officials at several Costcos and Wal-Marts in San Diego County said they had not seen any disruptions in rice supplies.

The warehouse chains cater heavily to small businesses, including restaurants. Sam's Club spokeswoman Kristy Reed said she could not comment on whether the problem was caused by short supplies or by customers stocking up in anticipation of higher prices.

USA Rice Federation spokesman David Coia said there is no rice shortage in the United States.

“It's possible that small restaurants and bodega-type neighborhood stores may be purchasing rice in larger quantities than they do typically to avoid higher prices,” Coia said.

U.S. rice futures soared to an all-time high yesterday as investors bet that surging world demand will continue to pressure already-dwindling stockpiles. Rice for the most actively traded July contract jumped 62 cents to $24.82 per 100 pounds on the Chicago Board of Trade.

Relentless demand from developing countries and poor crop yields have pushed rice prices up 70 percent this year, raising concerns of shortages.

The steep increases have followed similar jumps in the price of wheat, corn and soybeans that have added to Americans' growing grocery bill and led to violent food riots in poor countries including Haiti, Senegal and Pakistan.

U.S. production of long grain and medium grain rice is strong, and the global crop is larger than ever, said Nathan Childs, an economist with the U.S. Department of Agriculture. But with some of the principal exporters of the higher-priced rices, such as India and Vietnam, shunning foreign sales to control prices at home and the cost of food generally going up, the price of rice has been climbing to new heights.


posted : Thursday, April 24, 2008
title : part2

Jonah's true self-image is unreasonably low. Someone once told Jonah that she wasn't a great and beautiful person, and she believed them. Jonah also has a fear that she might fail if she takes large risks. Therefore she resists setting her goals too high, risking failure. She doesn't have the internal confidence that frees her to take risks and chance failure. Jonah is capable of accomplishing much more than she is presently achieving. All this relates to her self-esteem. Jonah's self-concept is artificially low. Jonah will stay in a bad situation much too long... why? Because she is afraid that if she makes a change, it might get worse. It is hard for Jonah to plan too far into the future. She kind of takes things on a day to day basis. She may tell you her dreams but she is living in today, with a fear of making a change. No matter how loud she speaks, look at her actions. This is perhaps the biggest single barrier to happiness people not believing in and loving themselves. Jonah is an example of someone living with a low self-image, because their innate self-confidence was broken.



Jonah will take action on her thoughts. She is positive that her views are correct for her. She has the ability to seem as if she is positively correct when answering a question, even if she does not have the slightest idea of the answer. Jonah displays a self-confidence that makes everyone else sure she is correct. She is positive of her own views, but not necessarily stubborn.





Jonah has a healthy imagination and displays a fair amount of trust. She lets new people into her circle of friends. She uses her imagination to understand new ideas, things, and people.






For a graphologist, the spacing on the page reflects the writer's attitude toward their own world and relationship to things in his or her own space. If the inputted data was correct Jonah has no white space or margins on a typical sheet of paper. Jonah fills up every last inch on the top, right, left, and bottom. Hmmm. If this is true, then Jonah has a very aggressive personality toward others and quite frankly lacks a bit of respect for the space and property of other people. I would be surprised if Jonah just comes into someone's home and helps herself to a drink in the refrigerator. This can be both an obnoxious personality trait and it can be assertive and effective in getting what you want. There isn't much fear of getting in trouble here, Jonah finds plenty of reasons to break the rules and get in trouble. (Okay, perhaps when she was younger, not anymore?) Basically, people with no margins are a handful.

posted :
title : my hand wrinting analysis

Most people with a severe leftward slant have some type of childhood trauma they have yet to work through. Since we didn't actually "see the writing", we can't tell if she actually has a hard left emotional slant, but if so... she has issues with trust and it is likely rooted in childhood.

Jonah has withdrawn into herself. She is reserved and shows her feelings only at times of great anger, extreme passion, or tremendous stress. Jonah is an introvert. She makes decisions based on logic, therefore she is rarely impulsive. She doesn't find any need for expressing her emotions. In fact, she probably sees this emotional expression as an unnecessary waste of time. She has a hard time relating to an extreme extrovert, although it is common for her to be attracted to one. Many people do not understand Jonah; it is difficult for them to really know how Jonah feels. Jonah enjoys being alone, and probably prefers working alone. Working with her hands is a pleasure.

Jonah's basic nature is to look out for herself first. Although she can and does feel emotions, perhaps as deeply as anyone, she just almost always harbors them inside.

The first time someone angers Jonah, she probably will not say anything to that person at that time. However, she will mentally keep track of everything this person does wrong to her until she cannot hold her emotions inside any longer. Then; Boom! Jonah will cloud up and rain all over them. And she will never regret telling someone off, because she knew what she was saying the entire time. She won't impulsively tell someone off.

Emotional stories will not sway Jonah. She thinks totally with judgment, first considering every situation by the effect it will have on her.

Jonah needs space and time alone. She will be much more efficient if given a job alone, rather than being surrounded by people.

People that write their letters in an average height and average size are moderate in their ability to interact socially. According to the data input, Jonah doesn't write too large or too small, indicating a balanced ability to be social and interact with others.




Jonah will demand respect and will expect others to treat her with honor and dignity. Jonah believes in her ideas and will expect other people to also respect them. She has a lot of pride.


Jonah is secretive. She has secrets which she does not wish to share with others. She intentionally conceals things about herself. She has a private side that she intends to keep that way, especially concerning certain events in her past.




Jonah has a desire for attention. People around Jonah will notice this need. She may fulfill this need by a variety of ways depending on her own character.




Jonah has an over-awareness of self. She often feels self-conscious. She fears ridicule, therefore she is careful not to place herself in a position to receive any ridicule. She wonders what people will think if she acts in a certain manner. When encountering a new group of people, Jonah may stay on the sidelines until she has the people categorized, or she may behave in a "positive attention getting" manner to assure people think good thoughts about her from the start.

In the sales profession, this self-consciousness is called "call reluctance". They take the word "no" as a personal criticism. Therefore, there is an internal struggle when performing this type of work. Although this person may be a great salesperson, she still feels insecurity. She will perform better if someone else is with her because the fear of ridicule from her peers is far greater than the fear of ridicule from her clients. Many times this type of person becomes a sales trainer, because when she is training, she doesn't have to put herself in a position of being told "no" as often as the salesmen do.



Jonah is a cumulative and procedural thinker. She likes to have all the facts before making a decision. She thinks or creates much like a brick mason, stacking fact upon fact. Her thought pattern or the conclusion will not be complete until the last fact is in place. Like that brick wall, Jonah learns faster through visual demonstration than through quick verbal instructions. Once she has learned new material, and understood it, she won't forget.

Jonah is a methodical thinker, therefore she is able to build things and come up with new ideas. In an argument, she often loses to rapid thinking people because she is thinking thirty minutes later about what she should have said. These people often are very booksmart, but can be out-gunned in a rapid fire verbal debate.

She may learn new ideas at a slower pace than other "less detailed" people, but once she gets it, she can handle repetition. Some people hate jobs with too much repetition, she can handle it better than most.


part1

posted : Sunday, April 20, 2008
title : NO tO HOMOPHOBIA
I am the boy who never finished high school, because I got called a fag everyday

I am the girl kicked out of her home because I confided in my mother that I am a lesbian.

I am the prostitute working the streets because nobody will hire a transsexual woman.

I am the sister who holds her gay brother tight through the painful, tear-filled nights.

We are the parents who buried our daughter long before her time.

I am the man who died alone in the hospital because they would not let my partner of twenty-seven years into the room.

I am the foster child who wakes up with nightmares of being taken away from the two fathers who are the only loving family I have ever had. I wish they could adopt me.

I am not one of the lucky ones. I killed myself just weeks before graduating high school. It was simply too much to bear.

I am the man who fears that I will never be able to be myself, to be free of this secret because I won’t risk loosing my family and friends.

We are the couple who had the realtor hang up on us when she found out we wanted to rent a one-bedroom for two men.

I am the person who never knows which bathroom I should use if I want to avoid getting the management called on me.

I am the mother who is not allowed to even visit the children I bore, nursed, and raised. The court says I am an unfit mother because I now live with another woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who found the support system grow suddenly cold and distant when they found out my abusive partner is also a woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who has no support system to turn to because I am male.

I am the father who has never hugged his son because I grew up afraid to show affection to other men.

I am the home-economics teacher who always wanted to teach gym until someone told me that only lesbians do that.

I am the woman who died when the EMTs stopped treating me as soon as they realized I was transsexual.

I am the person who feels guilty because I think I could be a much better person if I didnt have to always deal with society hating me.

I am the man who stopped attending church, not because I don’t believe, but because they closed their doors to my kind.

I am the person who has to hide what this world needs most, love.

I am the person ashamed to tell my own friends im a lesbian, because they constantly make fun of them.

I am the boy tied to a fence, beaten to a bloody pulp and left to die because two straight men wanted to “teach me a lesson”

IF YOU BELIEVE THAT HOMOPHOBIA IS WRONG, REPOST THIS ON YOUR BLOG

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title : MY DISCLOSURE POLICY
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posted : Saturday, April 19, 2008
title : friendships
Friends will always be there for you no matter where you go.
They’ll make you smile, help you out, and let their feelings known.
Friends will always protect you from the dangers of the world
They’ll never leave you lonely, never let you be just another girl.
Friends will always keep your secrets and promise not to laugh
And even if they do laugh, their promise will always last.
Friends are to be treasured because good friendships are rare.
Only a few in this world will always truly care.
So hold on to the good ones and let go of the bad
Because life is too short to always be sad.
Share the good moments with all that you see
Because everyone’s heart deserves to be free.
So shed all your worries, let go of your woe
And travel with me to a world we all know.
It’s full of good memories, sewn together with care
An escape from reality when reality’s not fair.
Lets make a promise now to always help out
Because that is what friendship is truly about



My high school friends
during ailene's debut
(from left to righ)
myca,irish,dhave,ai-anne,moi,daphne,charllete


my classmate's 4fortitude04
chaellete, ineng, allaine,etchie and roxanne



rh14
grace,carla,tinay,hanna,len,hanna2,van,rachelle
grace,zandie and mia


moi bLu9


KamPon ni ate helen =]
where's ai-anne?


dentistry people =]


coLlege friends

more than 8 years of friendship and still counting =]
long live guyz

posted :
title : marked slippers
may childhood kakulitan ka ba? natural sinong wala, naalala ko lang nung 7 years old ako sa sobrang katarantahan ko dahil sa pasalubong na ibibigay sa akin ni tito jhun.
nag tatakbo ako sa ginagawang bahay namin, nangungupahan palang kami noon kaya medyo malawak yung tinakbuhan ko dahil yung 3 bahay na mag kakadikit tinangal yung divider sa tuwa ko hndi ko na napansin kung san san ako tumapak. binigyan ako ng tiyuhin ko ng tsinelas sinukat ko syempre bka maluwag. ok sakto parang sinukat ko lang haha
so ayun nag tatakbo ulit ako at wala akong pakialam kung saan ulit ako tumapak
kinaumgahan may sumisigaw ng pangalan ko!
JONAH!!! JONAH!!! JONAH!!! parang kilala ko yun hala si mama patay tayo dyan!
nakita nila yung marka ng tsinelas ko sa pulang simento, ang maganda don sa mismong floor ng bahay namin yung marka pinalo ako ni mama noon dahil ang pangit ng floor namin may marka ng tsinelas ko nag tanda naman ako nun haha, after 13 years andun pa rin yung marka ng tsinelas ko, hindi maikakaila na hindi ako dun tumira



isipin mo 13 years na yan! lol

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title : chitchats
today I had a weird conversation with tania, and i found my self laughing hard at it, Tania texts me this morning about someone its a gossip i think but i dint take it as a gossip lol, here's the main story

eynah: tol nakapunta kana sa "ocean world?"
tania: hindi pa tol eh nag yaya nga sila diona skin eh ikaw ba?
eynah: hindi pa din eh hahaha maganda daw dun
tania: oo mahal nga lang
eynah: oo nga eh 350 entrance
tania: tas 1 oras lng pwede mag tour
eynah: corny naman
tania: oo nga eh
eynah: anu kaya makikita dun siguro puro isda! lol
tania: beh to natural anu ka ba!?
eynah: hahahahahahaha

lesson learned
use your head lol

I'm aware of it seriously i just lost my freaking mind that time lol
(excuses)

posted : Friday, April 18, 2008
title : craving for new york

NEW YORK
yeap since elementary i wanted to go to new york aside of liberty i have my own freaking personal reason some of my friends knew it,and ohh dont forget the loving climate of new york, New York features a humid continental climate Weather in New York is heavily influenced by two continental air masses, a warm, humid one from the southwest and a cold, dry one from the northwest. I'm freaking dying to go there i cant wait really,


LONDON
London is the largest urban area and capital of England and the united kingdom,
uhmm I'm going there if i have a stable job, I'll soon tour my parents there =] talking about stable job if i will continue my studies in medicine I'LL be a forensic psychiatrist so i don't have a a problem in looking for a job =] maybe i will work for US government or a mental institution in London =] more Luck to me

I'll continue in my next entry
see ya


posted :
title : 4yrs ago

07.2004


since our house is far from where i studied and i dont want to comute everyday, i have to live in a lady's dormitory near my school, like 10 minutes of walkin I'm in school, so i dont have any reason or excuses for being late in my class, during my 1st semester my 1st class was 1pm so i had plenty of time fixin my stuff including my nap time, i had a 6 roomates ate ice, ate cozel their graduating that time, then chelsea takin up nursing, talorns i remember she's taking up pharmacy and ai-anne dentistry, lol and me Bs psychology, we have different character and attitude but hey we actually clicked. almost everyday we had a laughtrip experiences with each other, memories for keeps. talorns 1st left we had no idea why she left us. i missed them super, ate ice is merried now (i saw her friendster), ate cozel is in Us i think. talorns NO IDEA. ai-anne still in ceu soon tO be our dentist =] and chelsea a proud 2008 graduate =]

posted : Thursday, April 17, 2008
title : college life
freaking college life LOve it LOL

At the start of every New Semester:
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After First Week:
after 1stweek

After Second Week:
after 2nd week

Before the Mid-Term Test:
b4 midterms

During the Mid-Term Test:
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After the Mid-Term Test:
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Before the Final Exams:
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Upon Getting to Know the Final Exam Schedule:
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7 Days Before the Final Exam:
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6 Days Before the Final Exam:
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5 Days Before the Final Exam:
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4 Days Before the Final Exam:
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3 Days Before the Final Exam:
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2 Days Before the Final Exam:
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1 Day Before the Final Exam:
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The Night Before the Final Exam:
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1 Hour Before the Final Exam:
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During the Final Exam:
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Upon Walking Out From the Examination Hall:
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After the Final Exam, During the Holiday:
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THAT'S COLLEGE! ;)