It's best to keep it short and sweet. (:
It's best to keep it short and sweet. (:
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posted : Wednesday, April 30, 2008
title : frustration toleranc
Have you ever seen someone get angry at a computer when it froze and would not function? How did they behave? Every new technology seems to bring with it a certain amount of frustration, particularly for those with low frustration tolerance.Frustration tolerance refers to the quality of a person's performance on a task or during information processing when frustration occurs. When a person becomes very frustrated, the frustration can interfere with the performance of the task. Those with high tolerance are not as easily frustrated. Frustration tolerance can be measured with the Picture-Frustration Study by Rosenzweig. Little research has been done on this trait. It has been found that high frustration students have difficulty with trial and error situations in which they receive little guidance from the instructor. One approach is to start out by giving the learner easy problems to solve and providing lots of feedback, and then once success occurs, gradually increasing the difficulty level and reducing the guidance. The technology involved in distance learning may be frustrating to students at first, especially when the technology does not work the way it's supposed to. By helping students to troubleshoot and solve the problem, you can reduce their frustration levels. Another tactic is to discuss at the first class how the technology works, what might go wrong, and what to do if something goes wrong. When students know what to expect or understand why something is happening, their frustration will diminish. The delayed response involved in asynchronous communication may also lead to frustration if students are waiting a long time for feedback. Distance learning students who succeed have been shown in some studies to be both self-confident and persistent. It is possible that they also have a high tolerance for frustration. |
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title : fashion feather
My friends and I went to mall yesterday because my friends mom asked us for a favor, she told us to find some ostrich feathers for her custume, we cant find what she asked for, the sales lady told us are you looking forFeathers maybe this one can help you with your problems, they also offer ostrich farming consultancy. this site is very helpful for my friend's mom beacause they also searching for ostrich farming consultant for her husband.
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posted : Tuesday, April 29, 2008
title : good advice for girls
i just felt like i really have to repost this,it made alot of sense to me, i mean not only for me but for all the girl's out there we have to think and realize this article.. Good advices for girls 1. A man won't let go if he really loves you. 2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the relationship. There is only one reason why he ended your relationship. He just does not love you. Do not waste your time thinking of reasons or what you should have done. Move on and be open to a man who will truly love you.
4. Do not look into images. How many times have you met a girl who didn't have the best image in school or at the office, but you get to know the girl and found out she was actually extremely nice? Do not rely on images. Oftentimes, it is far from reality. Do not fear men just because your "supposedly" perfect ex-boyfriend mistreated you.
6. Do not be scared to lose him. Don't be scared that he'll break up with you. Once you are afraid of losing him, you easily can be taken advantage. Be strong and if something is unacceptable, do not accept it and speak up.
8. There is a guy who will value you. There is a guy out there who can make you feel valued, appreciated, and loved. And I mean, not just during your first few weeks together. So don't lose hope. Don't settle for a lesbian if you are not attracted to women. There is a man out there who can love you like a girl can. Also, do not believe him when he says it's just the way he really is. He's not the sweet or expressive-type. Remember during your first few weeks together? Where has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into you anymore.
10. He must respect you. No matter how long the relationship has been, he should always show respect towards you.
12. Never start a relationship the wrong way. Do not steal another girl's man, for whatever reason. Nor should you enter a relationship for the wrong reasons (loneliness, on the rebound, getting back at your ex, man-dependency, etc.) it is bound not to last. You will only end up wasting more years of your life.
14. Do not settle. If you are not happy anymore with your relationship, break up instantly. He will not stay with you forever no matter how upright he might seem to be. Eventually, he will also want love and happiness in his life.
16. Don't be afraid to be single. It's fun to be single, try it. You can go out whenever and wherever you want. You are free. You can date whomever you want and you get to go out for free! Do not get a boyfriend just for the sake of having one. Do not settle.
18. Love without limits. Whether you loved and gave everything or loved but held out for some things, if the relationship ends, you still get hurt. But if you gave your everything, you were happy and you could say that it was worth it. If you didn't give your all, you get hurt for nothing.
20. Be the one. Act like you are the one. Don't be a nagger. Don't hinder his gimmicks. Don't give in to him too easily. Make him treat you as important. Don't be easy. Don't be like every other girl he had in his life. |
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posted : Sunday, April 27, 2008
title : How Are You Good to Yourself?
you're good to yourself when you Pamper Yourself
Can you even think of anything nicer than a day sitting on your behind doing absolutely nothing besides asking an obliging waiter for another cold drink, or maybe hitting a glamorous spa for an all-out treatment? Of course not! Your idea of taking care of yourself is putting your mind at ease and your body at rest. Easygoing and (mostly) at peace with your body, you're the kind of person who likes to relax more than work up a sweat. And why not? Sure you can put your nose to the grindstone at work or suffer small deprivations if you absolutely have to, but you'd much rather live the good life. So give yourself a hand because when it comes to the greatest duty of all — being good to yourself — you've got it going on! i took this test earlier because of boredome kills me anyway's the result is kinda true =] |
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posted : Saturday, April 26, 2008
title : no more hiatus
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title : Welcome PPP!
Today is a great day! You want to know why? Because I just got approved by PPP! Yes, by the leading paid blogging site of course! After waiting for so long to get approve finally, just got an email from them a few hours ago informing me that this blog just got approved and ready for monetization! As you may not asked, I've been wanting to work for the largest blog network in the web today since my sister started earning some great amount of money from writing and doing paid write opportunities, imagine for a short period of time she was able to buy herself a dslr and some stuff she herself didn't imagine she can afford, all for the love of paid write ups and blurbs over her blog. So now, since I am already into this thing, you guys would be expecting a lot of stories and some posts with connection to my side line work! Oh I just can't wait to snag the greens and whites over the PPP site! I am so excited can you tell? so if you would like to learn more of this thing, holler me up and we can do the talking! :) Labels: online finds |
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posted : Friday, April 25, 2008
title : for my lovely ladies
IF A MAN WANTS YOU
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Domnot make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships...............there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. |
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title : hate letter agains flip
Letter Against Filipinos
Please take time to read this, most especially the bottom part, PATRICIA EVANGELISTA' s (19 year old Filipina) speech that won in a WORLD competition in London . This is a hate letter coming from a radio talk show host Mr. Art Bell from Nevada . I dont consider myself as patriotic but please read my reply below in BOLD LETTERS and send this to as many of your friends as possible until it reaches him. Subject: HATE LETTER This is a very disturbing open E-mail letter to all Filipinos around the world; specially here in North America !, from a man who has the power to reach millions of people. (he's a radio talk host) Please read on.......... .... This is an open letter email by Art Bell, a radio talk show host in Nevada (more info in the email itself). Here is yet another person who has taken; advantage of his power and privilege to use hateful words and racial stereotypes that breed further ignorance and intolerance in our society. Art Bell is a talk radio host who has two shows that he broadcasts from his home in Nevada , that is rebroadcast by 400 stations across the country. He's written 2 books. He lived in Okinawa , Japan for some years and had a radio program on the English station here. And, though it's hard to believe after reading the following letter from him, he actually has been to the Philippines (he's traveled fairly extensively around the world). Check out his website listed at the end to get a glimpse at this fool who's spreading this hateful ignorance. And check his wife as well. This letter is so degrading, I think it's really important that everybody read this and not attack him, but respond to him in a civilized manner because otherwise his thoughts will be reaffirmed. Understand that not everyone has a viewpoint like we do, and that this is an opinion of someone who hopefully can be changed only by civil actions. ~*~
Perhaps Art Bell does not know that although we consider ourselves ASIAN COMMENT 3: We do not need to create an identity for ourselves. We are who we are. Our Pinay wins it big in London By Alfred Yuson The Philippine Star 05/16/2004 Patricia Evangelista, a 19-year- old, Mass Communications sophomore of University of the Philippines (UP)-Diliman, did the country proud Friday night by besting 59 other student contestants from 37 countries in the 2004 International Public Speaking competition conducted by the English Speaking Union (ESU) in London . She triumphed over a field of exactly 60 speakers from all over the English-speaking world, including the United States , United Kingdom and Australia , reported Maranan. The board of judges' decision was unanimous, according to contest chairman Brian Hanharan of the British broadcasting Corp. (BBC). PATRICIA'S SHORT SPEECH WORTH READING.... ------------ --------- --------- --------- --------- --------- BLONDE AND BLUE EYES When I was little, I wanted what many Filipino children all over the country wanted. I wanted to be blond, blue-eyed, and white. I thought -- if I just wished hard enough and was good enough, I'd wake upon Christmas morning with snow outside my window and freckles across my nose! More than four centuries under western domination does that to you. I have sixteen cousins. In a couple of years, there will just be five of us left in the Philippines , the rest will have gone abroad in search of 'greener pastures.' It's not just an anomaly; it's a trend; the Filipino diaspora. Today, about eight million Filipinos are scattered around the world. There are those who disapprove of Filipinos who choose to leave. I used to. Maybe this is a natural reaction of someone who was left behind, smiling for family pictures that get emptier with each succeeding year. Desertion, I called it. My country is a land that has perpetually fought for the freedom to be itself. Our heroes offered their lives in the struggle against the Spanish, the Japanese, the Americans. To pack up and deny that identity is tantamount to spitting on that sacrifice. Or is it? I don't think so, not anymore. True, there is no denying this phenomenon, aided by the fact that what was once the other side of the world is now a twelve-hour plane ride away. But this is a borderless world, where no individual can claim to be purely from where he is now. My mother is of Chinese descent, my father is a quarter Spanish, and I call myself a pure Filipino-a hybrid of sorts resulting from a combination of cultures. Each square mile anywhere in the world is made up of people of different ethnicities, with national identities and individual personalities. because of this, each square mile is already a microcosm of the world. In as much as this blessed spot that is England is the world, so is my neighborhood back home. Seen this way! , the Filipino Diaspora, or any sort of dispersal of populations, is not as ominous as so many claim. It must be understood. I come from a Third World country, one that is still trying mightily to get back on its feet after many years of dictatorship. But we shall make it, given more time. Especially now, when we have thousands of eager young minds who graduate from college every year. They have skills. They need jobs. We cannot absorb them all. A borderless world presents a bigger opportunity, yet one that is not so much abandonment but an extension of identity . Even as we take, we give back. We are the 40,000 skilled nurses who support the UK's National Health Service . We are the quarter-of-a- million seafarers manning most of the world's commercial ships. We are your software engineers in Ireland , your construction workers in the Middle East, your doctors and caregivers in North America, and, your musical artists in London 's West End . Nationalism isn't bound by time or place. People from other nations migrate to create new nations, yet still remain essentially who they are. British society is itself an example of a multi-cultural nation, a melting pot of races, religions, arts and cultures. We are, indeed, in a borderless world! Leaving sometimes isn't a matter of choice. It's coming back that is. The Hobbits of the shire travelled all over Middle-Earth, but they chose to come home, richer in every sense of the word. We call people like these balikbayans or the 'returnees' -- those who followed their dream, yet choose to return and share their mature talents and good fortune. In a few years, I may take advantage of whatever opportunities come my way. But I will come home. A borderless world doesn't preclude the idea of a home. I'm a Filipino, and I'll always be one. It isn't about just geography; it isn't about boundaries. It's about giving back to the country that shaped me. And that's going to be more important to me than seeing snow outside my windows on a bright Christmas morning. Mabuhay and Thank you. So, be proud, you are a Filipino,... and not like Mr. Art Bell. Please do send this to as many person as you can until it reaches him |
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title : kidz
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title : baby jana
my college friend tinay gave birth last April 16, 2008 a beautiful baby girl her name JeorgeanaKrishane "jana" Salvador-Mollarca. I'm having a hard time pronouncing her name for real, i wasn't able to come with them last April 17 because my father is going back to America that day, so I grabbed some pictures form their multiply :)
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title : 2 warehouse retailers limit sales of rice
The two biggest U.S. warehouse retail chains are limiting how much rice customers can buy because of what Sam's Club, a division of Wal-Mart Stores, yesterday called “recent supply-and-demand trends.
The broader chain of Wal-Mart stores has no plans to limit food purchases, however. The move comes as U.S. rice futures hit a record high amid global food inflation, although one rice expert said the warehouse chains may be reacting less to any shortages than to stockpiling by restaurants and small stores. Sam's Club followed Costco Wholesale, which put limits in at least some Bay Area stores on bulk rice purchases. Sam's Club declined to say if this is first time it has restricted sales of bulk foods. The chain is limiting customers to four 20-pound bags of imported jasmine, basmati and long-grain white rice. Costco declined to discuss the issue yesterday. Officials at several Costcos and Wal-Marts in San Diego County said they had not seen any disruptions in rice supplies. The warehouse chains cater heavily to small businesses, including restaurants. Sam's Club spokeswoman Kristy Reed said she could not comment on whether the problem was caused by short supplies or by customers stocking up in anticipation of higher prices. USA Rice Federation spokesman David Coia said there is no rice shortage in the United States. “It's possible that small restaurants and bodega-type neighborhood stores may be purchasing rice in larger quantities than they do typically to avoid higher prices,” Coia said. U.S. rice futures soared to an all-time high yesterday as investors bet that surging world demand will continue to pressure already-dwindling stockpiles. Rice for the most actively traded July contract jumped 62 cents to $24.82 per 100 pounds on the Chicago Board of Trade. Relentless demand from developing countries and poor crop yields have pushed rice prices up 70 percent this year, raising concerns of shortages. The steep increases have followed similar jumps in the price of wheat, corn and soybeans that have added to Americans' growing grocery bill and led to violent food riots in poor countries including Haiti, Senegal and Pakistan. U.S. production of long grain and medium grain rice is strong, and the global crop is larger than ever, said Nathan Childs, an economist with the U.S. Department of Agriculture. But with some of the principal exporters of the higher-priced rices, such as India and Vietnam, shunning foreign sales to control prices at home and the cost of food generally going up, the price of rice has been climbing to new heights. |
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posted : Thursday, April 24, 2008
title : part2
Jonah's true self-image is unreasonably low. Someone once told Jonah that she wasn't a great and beautiful person, and she believed them. Jonah also has a fear that she might fail if she takes large risks. Therefore she resists setting her goals too high, risking failure. She doesn't have the internal confidence that frees her to take risks and chance failure. Jonah is capable of accomplishing much more than she is presently achieving. All this relates to her self-esteem. Jonah's self-concept is artificially low. Jonah will stay in a bad situation much too long... why? Because she is afraid that if she makes a change, it might get worse. It is hard for Jonah to plan too far into the future. She kind of takes things on a day to day basis. She may tell you her dreams but she is living in today, with a fear of making a change. No matter how loud she speaks, look at her actions. This is perhaps the biggest single barrier to happiness people not believing in and loving themselves. Jonah is an example of someone living with a low self-image, because their innate self-confidence was broken.
Jonah will take action on her thoughts. She is positive that her views are correct for her. She has the ability to seem as if she is positively correct when answering a question, even if she does not have the slightest idea of the answer. Jonah displays a self-confidence that makes everyone else sure she is correct. She is positive of her own views, but not necessarily stubborn. Jonah has a healthy imagination and displays a fair amount of trust. She lets new people into her circle of friends. She uses her imagination to understand new ideas, things, and people. For a graphologist, the spacing on the page reflects the writer's attitude toward their own world and relationship to things in his or her own space. If the inputted data was correct Jonah has no white space or margins on a typical sheet of paper. Jonah fills up every last inch on the top, right, left, and bottom. Hmmm. If this is true, then Jonah has a very aggressive personality toward others and quite frankly lacks a bit of respect for the space and property of other people. I would be surprised if Jonah just comes into someone's home and helps herself to a drink in the refrigerator. This can be both an obnoxious personality trait and it can be assertive and effective in getting what you want. There isn't much fear of getting in trouble here, Jonah finds plenty of reasons to break the rules and get in trouble. (Okay, perhaps when she was younger, not anymore?) Basically, people with no margins are a handful. |
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title : my hand wrinting analysis
Most people with a severe leftward slant have some type of childhood trauma they have yet to work through. Since we didn't actually "see the writing", we can't tell if she actually has a hard left emotional slant, but if so... she has issues with trust and it is likely rooted in childhood.
Jonah has withdrawn into herself. She is reserved and shows her feelings only at times of great anger, extreme passion, or tremendous stress. Jonah is an introvert. She makes decisions based on logic, therefore she is rarely impulsive. She doesn't find any need for expressing her emotions. In fact, she probably sees this emotional expression as an unnecessary waste of time. She has a hard time relating to an extreme extrovert, although it is common for her to be attracted to one. Many people do not understand Jonah; it is difficult for them to really know how Jonah feels. Jonah enjoys being alone, and probably prefers working alone. Working with her hands is a pleasure. Jonah's basic nature is to look out for herself first. Although she can and does feel emotions, perhaps as deeply as anyone, she just almost always harbors them inside. The first time someone angers Jonah, she probably will not say anything to that person at that time. However, she will mentally keep track of everything this person does wrong to her until she cannot hold her emotions inside any longer. Then; Boom! Jonah will cloud up and rain all over them. And she will never regret telling someone off, because she knew what she was saying the entire time. She won't impulsively tell someone off. Emotional stories will not sway Jonah. She thinks totally with judgment, first considering every situation by the effect it will have on her. Jonah needs space and time alone. She will be much more efficient if given a job alone, rather than being surrounded by people. People that write their letters in an average height and average size are moderate in their ability to interact socially. According to the data input, Jonah doesn't write too large or too small, indicating a balanced ability to be social and interact with others. Jonah will demand respect and will expect others to treat her with honor and dignity. Jonah believes in her ideas and will expect other people to also respect them. She has a lot of pride. Jonah is secretive. She has secrets which she does not wish to share with others. She intentionally conceals things about herself. She has a private side that she intends to keep that way, especially concerning certain events in her past. Jonah has a desire for attention. People around Jonah will notice this need. She may fulfill this need by a variety of ways depending on her own character. Jonah has an over-awareness of self. She often feels self-conscious. She fears ridicule, therefore she is careful not to place herself in a position to receive any ridicule. She wonders what people will think if she acts in a certain manner. When encountering a new group of people, Jonah may stay on the sidelines until she has the people categorized, or she may behave in a "positive attention getting" manner to assure people think good thoughts about her from the start. In the sales profession, this self-consciousness is called "call reluctance". They take the word "no" as a personal criticism. Therefore, there is an internal struggle when performing this type of work. Although this person may be a great salesperson, she still feels insecurity. She will perform better if someone else is with her because the fear of ridicule from her peers is far greater than the fear of ridicule from her clients. Many times this type of person becomes a sales trainer, because when she is training, she doesn't have to put herself in a position of being told "no" as often as the salesmen do. Jonah is a cumulative and procedural thinker. She likes to have all the facts before making a decision. She thinks or creates much like a brick mason, stacking fact upon fact. Her thought pattern or the conclusion will not be complete until the last fact is in place. Like that brick wall, Jonah learns faster through visual demonstration than through quick verbal instructions. Once she has learned new material, and understood it, she won't forget. Jonah is a methodical thinker, therefore she is able to build things and come up with new ideas. In an argument, she often loses to rapid thinking people because she is thinking thirty minutes later about what she should have said. These people often are very booksmart, but can be out-gunned in a rapid fire verbal debate. She may learn new ideas at a slower pace than other "less detailed" people, but once she gets it, she can handle repetition. Some people hate jobs with too much repetition, she can handle it better than most. part1 |
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posted : Sunday, April 20, 2008
title : NO tO HOMOPHOBIA
I am the boy who never finished high school, because I got called a fag everyday
I am the girl kicked out of her home because I confided in my mother that I am a lesbian. I am the prostitute working the streets because nobody will hire a transsexual woman. I am the sister who holds her gay brother tight through the painful, tear-filled nights. We are the parents who buried our daughter long before her time. I am the man who died alone in the hospital because they would not let my partner of twenty-seven years into the room. I am the foster child who wakes up with nightmares of being taken away from the two fathers who are the only loving family I have ever had. I wish they could adopt me. I am not one of the lucky ones. I killed myself just weeks before graduating high school. It was simply too much to bear. I am the man who fears that I will never be able to be myself, to be free of this secret because I won’t risk loosing my family and friends. We are the couple who had the realtor hang up on us when she found out we wanted to rent a one-bedroom for two men. I am the person who never knows which bathroom I should use if I want to avoid getting the management called on me. I am the mother who is not allowed to even visit the children I bore, nursed, and raised. The court says I am an unfit mother because I now live with another woman. I am the domestic-violence survivor who found the support system grow suddenly cold and distant when they found out my abusive partner is also a woman. I am the domestic-violence survivor who has no support system to turn to because I am male. I am the father who has never hugged his son because I grew up afraid to show affection to other men. I am the home-economics teacher who always wanted to teach gym until someone told me that only lesbians do that. I am the woman who died when the EMTs stopped treating me as soon as they realized I was transsexual. I am the person who feels guilty because I think I could be a much better person if I didnt have to always deal with society hating me. I am the man who stopped attending church, not because I don’t believe, but because they closed their doors to my kind. I am the person who has to hide what this world needs most, love. I am the person ashamed to tell my own friends im a lesbian, because they constantly make fun of them. I am the boy tied to a fence, beaten to a bloody pulp and left to die because two straight men wanted to “teach me a lesson” IF YOU BELIEVE THAT HOMOPHOBIA IS WRONG, REPOST THIS ON YOUR BLOG |
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title : MY DISCLOSURE POLICY
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title : chitchats
today I had a weird conversation with tania, and i found my self laughing hard at it, Tania texts me this morning about someone its a gossip i think but i dint take it as a gossip lol, here's the main story
eynah: tol nakapunta kana sa "ocean world?" tania: hindi pa tol eh nag yaya nga sila diona skin eh ikaw ba? eynah: hindi pa din eh hahaha maganda daw dun tania: oo mahal nga lang eynah: oo nga eh 350 entrance tania: tas 1 oras lng pwede mag tour eynah: corny naman tania: oo nga eh eynah: anu kaya makikita dun siguro puro isda! lol tania: beh to natural anu ka ba!? eynah: hahahahahahaha lesson learned use your head lol I'm aware of it seriously i just lost my freaking mind that time lol (excuses) |