Envy and jealousy are distinct in their object, Jealousy concerns something one has and is afraid of loosing, while envy concerns something one does not have and either he wants to acquire (nonmalicious envy) or he wants the other(s) not to have A comparison between jealousy and envy can be carried out in order to understand their differences and similarities. Possible objects of love can be possible objects of jealousy; possible object of self esteem can be possible object of envy. Love and self esteem, which appear to be the main reasons for the two emotions, are extremely positive values, so that there could be some good in envy and jealousy. In fact, nonmalicious envy can “motivate people to improve themselves” (Parrot, 2001, p. 309). Moreover, jealousy can be the proof of passionate love, as an emotion that is appreciated by the partner thus strengthening the love relation. There are degenerate aspects of both emotions: possessiveness for love and self-indulgence for self esteem. Those can yield to destructive behaviours and feelings like the lover’s segregation in jealousy and the schadenfreude (joy for another’s misfortune) in envy.
Envy can be considered a vice, meaning something that is always bad to be condemned anyway. This consideration comes up from the fact that very seldom (if not ever) the observation of another person’s success or achievement is free from any sort of hostility. Because of this, one could foster the inhibition of envy, control or disapprove it completely. But, as said before, envy can also be a drive for improvement, exactly as said for jealousy when it was considered as a passion.
im excited to see kevjumba do the chubby bunny!.. =]
but im not sure if i can see him, im goin out early morning tomorrow,
owww Life, i really wanted to see people plying that chubby bunny thing..
waaaa,
found it in multiply.. Oh My Life thank God i was able to reach some par of this childhood days =] syang mukang masaya pa yung iba
TO ALL THE KIDS WHO WERE BORN IN THE 1950's, 60's and 70's !!
First, some of us survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they carried us. ( sioktong ang inumin)
They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, fish from a can ( brand : ligo ) , and didn't get tested for diabetes.
Then after that trauma, our baby cribs were covered with bright colored lead-based paints , pati na yung laruang kabayu-kabayuhan.
We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets, no kneepads , sometimes wala ngang preno yung bisikleta.
As children, we would ride in car with no seat belts or air bags – hanggang ngayon naman, di ba ? ( jeep )
Riding in the back of a pick up on a warm day was always a special treat. ( maykaya kayo pare ! )
We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle ( minsan straight from the faucet)
We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE actually died from this. Or contacted hepatitis.
We ate rice with tinunaw na purico ( dahil ubos na ang star margarine) , nutribuns na galing kay macoy and drank sopdrinks with sugar in it, but we weren't overweight kasi nga ..... .
WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!!
We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on. Sarap mag patintero, tumbang preso , habulan taguan….
No one was able to reach us all day ( di uso ang celfon , walang beepers ) . And we were O.K.
We would spend hours building our trolleys or slides out of scraps and then ride down the street , only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem .
We did not have Playstations, Nintendo's, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 99 channels on cable, no video tape movies, no surround sound, no cell phones, no personal computers, no Internet or Internet chat rooms....... ...WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!
We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no
lawsuits from these accidents . The only rubbing we get is from our friends with the words…..masakit ba ? pero pag galit yung kalaro mo,,,,ang sasabihin sa iyo…..beh buti nga !
We play in the dirt , wash our hands a little and ate with our barehands…we were not afraid of getting worms in our stomachs.
We have to live with homemade guns – gawa sa kahoy, tinali ng rubberband , sumpit , tirador at kung ano ano pa na puedeng makasakit…..pero walang nagrereklamo.
made up games with sticks ( syatong ) and cans ( tumbang preso ) and although we were told it would happen, wala naman tayong binulag o napatay….paminsan minsan may nabubukulan.
We r ode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just yelled for them!
Mini basketball teams had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Walang sumasama ang loob.
Ang magulang ay nandoon lang para tignan kung ayos lang ang bata….hindi para makialam.
This generation of ours has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and managers ever!
The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.
We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned
HOW TO
DEAL WITH IT ALL!
And YOU are one of them!
CONGRATULATIONS!
You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the government regulated our lives for our own good.
And while you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave their parents were.
darn it! i've been tagged by my fellow youtube guyz =] so now i have to do a video containing my 5 facts about me.. darn it i dont have any idea, and i dont know how to start making my video! darn it! 5 facts about me?? uhmm they gave me 1 week for my video, haha oMg!!
-KEVJUMBA
-HappySlip
-ADObe photoshop cs3
-"world of war craft"
funny Fact:
An addiction does not necessarily mean an addiction to a drug or alcohol, but can also be uncontrolled behaviors such as pornographic addiction, sex addiction, gambling addiction, or other behaviors that are uncontrollable regardless of their negative consequences. An addiction will generally take over aspects of an individual’s life, and in some cases, can be the sole focus of one’s life., =] you defetnly know if yer addictive to something if you're starting to lie to your parents lol.. [not me], (my parents ganna kill me]
photography is L.O.V.E..
i used my sisters D40.
then i do some editing stuff,
my model is Stephanie Louise Rosadinio (my niece)
i tOok this picture while we're on our way to tagaytay for visita iglesia,
she's a poser...
makasali nga sa biding nila =] i'll bid MY allowance for this week for tOni2 deym hOt ,, ^^
late nanaman ako sa show nila. haha pano inatake ng mga ants ang room ko ayus ah! hndi ko pa naman trip ang mga langam, may bagOng trip ang BNO mag bibigay sila ng worth 500 smart pre-paid card, dahil holy week daw. pero dapat sa important yung tatawagan =] such a gOod heart guyz! mapupunta dung money sa charity =] dahil womens month daw XD
(for you missy =] she's so busy kc, so i wish this one can help her realize kung gano sya kainsecure, and oh i think nsa denial stage pa sya.. i pity her so much, i hope i could help her cure her disease, so mean =] yeaa and im expecting some not-sooo-good reactions for this one.. =]] dont worry missy i understand you, i'ma psychology student, =] )
What is insecurity?
Insecurity is:
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Feeling of not being ``good enough'' to meet the challenge of a situation you face in life.
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Sense of helplessness in the face of problems, conflict, or concerns.
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Belief that one is inadequate or incompetent to handle life's challenges.
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Fear of being discovered as inadequate, ill fitted, or unsuited to meet responsibilities at home, school, or on the job.
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Sense of not fitting in, being ``out of synch'' with those in your peer group.
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Perception that life is unpredictable with most of the expectations you have to meet not clearly understood.
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Sense of always climbing up a mountain, never being able to reach the top.
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Sense of lacking support or reinforcement where you live, work, or play.
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Results from a sense of being unaccepted, disapproved, or rejected.
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Inner turmoil coming from a lack of direction or bewilderment as to where you are going, what your goals are, and what responses are appropriate for events in life.
Why are people insecure?
Insecure people may have:
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Been raised in a chaotic, unpredictable, or volatile environment in which they were kept off balance, on guard, or on edge.
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Experienced a major tragedy or loss in their lives and are having a difficult time in accepting this loss and adjusting to the ``change.''
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Experienced a major ``failure'' in life (e.g., divorce, losing a job, bankruptcy, failure in school, losing a friend, lack of acceptance into social or civic groups, etc.) that led them to question their personal competency.
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A poorly developed self-concept with low self-esteem, lacking belief in their personal goodness, skills, or abilities.
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Never felt accepted by the ``others'' in their life, so much so that they became chronically shy, retiring, and withdrawn in their interactions.
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Had an unrealistic list of rules and expectations prescribed by significant others in their life, rules they are striving to meet even in their current life.
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A poor body image, making them believe that others see them in a negative light. This makes them self-conscious, tense, and anxious in dealing with others.
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Never received enough positive reinforcement or feedback from others about their talents and abilities, leaving them unclear as to their skills.
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Been given very little direction, guidance, or discipline in their earlier lives leaving them unable to cope with the current pressures of life.
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Always felt overshadowed or overlooked due to the people in their lives who seemed to be more successful, smarter, prettier, more handsome, more athletic, higher achievers, getting much attention. This can foster doubt in an insecure person's ability to gain recognition for their successes, and can make them doubt their ability to achieve success
What do chronically insecure people believe?
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I can never accomplish the task facing me!
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Everybody is looking at me, just waiting for me to make a fool of myself!
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I am a failure!
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I am ugly and awful to look at!
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I can never win. I am a loser.
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What is the sense of trying, I'll never get it right!
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No matter how hard I work to achieve, I never get any recognition!
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I am incompetent in everything.
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How could anybody ever say anything good about me?
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I failed them in the past; therefore, I am a failure today!
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Once a failure, always a failure!
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There is only one direction for me to go in this organization and that is down and out!
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No one could ever like, respect, or accept me!
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I don't deserve to be treated nicely!
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I don't fit in here or anywhere else for that matter!
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Everyone else looks so good, so together; I feel so out of it compared to them!
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I am an incomplete person and will always be that way!
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I am so afraid that no one will like me!
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Why would anyone care to hear what I say, how I feel, or what I think?
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People are just nice to you in order to use you and get something they want from you!
What are some negative effects of insecurity?
People who are insecure can:
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Have difficulties in establishing healthy, long-lasting relationships.
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Be perceived incorrectly by others as being snobbish or uppity; therefore, they are avoided due to the others' misperceptions.
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Become victims of fears that impair their freedom of action or choice.
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Be candidates for paranoia feeling "others'' are out to get them.
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Scare others away from them by their defensive attitude.
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Be over-controlled emotionally, having problems letting others in on their emotions. This can lead others to guess what is going on until the passivity of the insecure person leads to an over-reaction by the others, resulting in conflict or rejection.
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Have problems on the job or in school when they have the knowledge, skills and abilities to do a task efficiently but are told to do it in a different, less effective manner. They get so uptight about the job and are fearful of standing up for what they believe that they get angry, hostile, and resentful until they either quit or succeed in submerging their emotions.
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Get passed over for promotions, advances, or honors because they are so quiet about what it is they do. This leads the insecure persons to feel more unaccepted, unappreciated, and under-valued.
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Have problems meeting people and often can become debilitated socially by chronic shyness.
How can insecurity be overcome?
In order to overcome insecurity, people need to:
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Be willing to be put in vulnerable positions in life where they might get hurt.
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Take risks to change their current behavior.
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Trust others enough to expose themselves to them, risking vulnerability and the possibility of being hurt.
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Have a healthy and humorous belief in themselves in order to overlook their exaggerated need for acceptance and approval.
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Take a rational approach to each problem they face so that they are no longer inhibited by debilitating fears or beliefs.
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Practice assertive behavior in their lives, earning respect and the acknowledgment of their rights.
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Arouse the courage to take small steps in learning to experience success and overcoming their lack of belief in self. Once the success is experienced, they can build on it to gain the courage to act out of a strong conviction in their self-goodness and worth.
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Break the barrier or outer shell of the self-doubt they have hidden behind and reach out to others. Breaking out of their ``shells'' requires letting go of past hurts (real or imagined) and moving on with life.
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Open themselves to the possibility of success and accomplishment. Visualize or make a prophecy of winning at life so their energies are focused in a growth direction.
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Reward themselves for who they are and capitalize on their strengths, attributes, skills, and competencies.
"Sometimes I wish I were a little kid again; skinned knees are easier to fix than broken hearts." -Anonymous
There's very little in life that hurts as much as a broken heart. I always wished there were a guide on dealing with the pain of having loved and lost. So I'm gonna make an attempt at such a guide. Based on my many days dealing with a broken heart in what I call "the pain chamber," I'd like to share some thoughts on what's gotten me through:
First, listen to some country music.
Second, try listening to some country music.
Third, did I say country music?
Country songs cover some powerful lessons and wise teachings on handling the dark side of love. Depending on the day or the moment, any of the following tips might help...
1. Keep in mind that a broken heart is part of being human
Be wary of the person who hasn't dealt with a broken heart. No matter how strong you might be, if you're open to love, you're automatically vulnerable to pain. So don't feel bad if you’re in the pain chamber. Know that it's very normal and very much a part of being human. In "God Only Knows," Cynthia Ford sings about the unbearable pain that no amount of strength can overcome. She learns it's faith, not strength, that can get you through:
Somebody tell me if there's
any other way
I tried prayin' for strength
But it never came
So I'm praying for faith
Cuz God only knows
How hard this is for me
2. Light the fire
When dealing with heartbreak, sometimes it helps to get a little fired up! You can spend a lot of time bummed out and weeping, but at a certain point, it might help to get off your ass. Go for a run, lift some weights, scream if you must. Think Rocky Balboa meets the Karate Kid. In other words, get pumped. Check out Dierks Bentley's song "Forget About You" for inspiration:
I heard that ol' Jones song just the other day
'Bout a man who took that ol' broken heart to his grave
But I'll be damned if a memory's gonna lay me down
I might be walkin' around with a head full of air
Actin' kinda crazy but I don't care
This heart's barely beating, but I'll still be above the ground
I'll forget about you!
3. Take solace in the fact that things have a way of working out
It's hard to understand the first time your heart is broken. But over time, you come to realize that there's a certain rhyme and reason to life. As Garth Brooks sings, you may just become grateful for your "Unanswered Prayers":
She was the one that I'd wanted for all time
And each night I'd spend prayin' that God would make her mine
And if he'd only grant me this wish I wished back then
I'd never ask for anything again
Sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers
Remember when you're talkin' to the man upstairs
That just because he doesn't answer doesn't mean he don't care
Some of God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers
4. Feel the pain
We can exhaust ourselves fighting the pain. Allowing yourself to feel the pain rather than resist it sometimes can be very healing.
- Trying sitting with your ankles crossed in front you.
- Let your palms face up to symbolize a state of surrender. Someone once said, "Keep in mind that letting go isn't the end of the world; it's the beginning of a new life."
Grimace is a character in the marketing campaign by the McDonald's restaurant chain. Large and purple with short arms and legs, he is known for his monotonous face and slow-witted demeanor. His most common expression is the word "duh".
In the first campaign of McDonaldland commercials beginning in 1971, Grimace was the "Evil Grimace", with two pairs of arms with which to steal milkshakes. After that first campaign, the character was revised to be one of the "good guys", and his number of arms was reduced by two. Today, Grimace is generally portrayed in McDonald's commercials and merchandise as a well-meaning simpleton, whose clumsy antics provide a comic foil to Ronald McDonald.
Since the character's introduction, there has been much speculation regarding his appearance. The majority of McDonald's characters more or less directly represent a food product sold at the restaurants (e.g., Mayor McCheese, The Fry Guys, McNugget Buddies, etc.). Although his food group is ambiguous, he is most often associated with milkshakes, and could be likened to a shake with anthropomorphic qualities. Grimace's "official" role, according to McDonald's, continues to be representative of the chain's milkshakes.
oh diba ang Lolo mo used to be evil pa pla.. nak ng! tibay mo dre!!
yess nakaabot ako sa BNO yUn abot na abot ako sa celeb frank call nila.. i thought it was bianca gonzalez, yun pala si bianca king she's nice naman pala, and good thing she's listening to BNO, kaya ayun hndi sya na victima nila toni2 coOl.. ^^ smart girl, actually I'm a fan of BNO yeaaa.. nung kpanahunan pa ni KDL. almost every night i was laughing out laud in my room, all the banat of KDL so cOOl. "SEXY TIME" and all haha umpisa nung nwala si kdl sa bno tinamad na ko, so medyo nawala ako sa linya nila, then last week napadaan ako sa station nila. ayun tawa ako ng tawa sa confession sessions coOL.. haha so im back again gUyz SEXY TIME!! =] ngayon nag trtrip na2man sila my phone call from las vegas, and guess what si PACMAN! at si jinky! oo nlang guyz ang kulit nila,, hahaha nice one BNO..
i really have nothing to do.. im tired of playing sims ugh! seasick of listening same odd music.. most of the time, nkahilata lng ako sa bed, nag iintay dapuan ng antok, or whatever ugh! sobranG boring... (yawn) ang bagal pa ng oras. haha naman.. may pasok pa kc yung ibng tropa ko, ako palang yUng swerte =] and im done with my DVD's ugh sucks in 2 days nka 15? movies ako., wala tlgang tulugan.. i really need a life right now, and im going out yesss im going out today, =] i'll tell you guyz later =] for now byebye muna.. =]]
1) Pick only those friends, who make you feel good about yourself.
2) If your friend is the jealous type, she'll never be honest and would therefore be untrustworthy.
3) Go by your gut feeling. If a person in genuinely fond of you, you will know.
4) While you must cherish old friendships, be open to new ones.
5) Don't ever ask friends for favors or things to do that you wouldn't do yourself.
6) Your friend's priorities may be different from yours. Respect them.
7) It's not advisable to simmer over an argument. Always speak up and sort it out.
8) Always remember a friend's birthday.
9) Make it a point to call up your friends if something big, good or bad, is happening in their lives.
10) Don't take your friends for granted. They are your support all right but burdening them is unfair and you must not encroach upon their private lives. Acknowledge their limits.
Croping up of such insecurities can prove disastrous for the nurturing of future bondings
Insecurity can come in many different forms. From being insecure about physical appearance to feeling unconfident about emotional issues; feelings of insecurity often surface in any given relationship at some point. While in some cases the insecurity is a deep-rooted demon from a past bad experience or childhood trauma, in most cases, certain types of insecurities are felt by most people during the initial dating stages and the beginning of a relationship. The following is a list of the most common reasons why an individual could feel insecure both during early dating and at the onset of a relationship.
The Dating Insecurities
Not calling
The first most common reason why people tend to get insecure and back off during the early stages of dating is the fact that they might not receive a phone call as promised. If you are on a date with someone and you are the one who says you are going to call, then make sure to make that phone call. If you say you're going to call in a day or two but call after a week instead, it could give out the signal that you are not very interested.
Only sexual intentions
The very fact that you are going on a date with someone, says that at some level, the attraction is physical. However, even if you have been having mad sexual fantasies about this person, try not to be too blatant about it and throw yourself all over him or her. Many people can start to feel insecure emotionally if they feel that you are only interested in them sexually. So give it time and try not to take things either too fast or too slow. Rather, just go with the flow and let things happen naturally.
Other people
It is perfectly acceptable to casually date more than one person at the same time as long as you are honest about it. So, if you are dating about other people, don't lie about it. You don't lie about it. You don't have to bring it up in conversation, but the honest. Because if the dating turns into a serious relationship, it's only fair to let him or her know the truth about your dating life.
Not interested
Even the most confident individual sometimes needs a little affirmation that you're interested in him or her. If he or she feels that you are not very interested, they might start feeling insecure and start looking for reassurance elsewhere, so as to avoid such a situation, give hints to let him or her know that they are special to you.
Relationship Insecurities
Cheating
The fear that your partner is cheating on you is the worst insecurity to live with and it is also the most common early relationship anxiety that people feel. So, watch out for this one. You do need to address this fear and give the assurance that you are committed.
Bad in bed
This is a very touchy subject and most insecurity stems from this particular issue. So if things are going well in that department, make sure to let him or her know. If not, be sure to address to address the issue in the most sensitive manner possible.
No attraction anymore
Just because you are in a relationship, it doesn't mean that he or she does not need reassurance anymore. In fact, because you are done with the dating and are now taking things a little more seriously, you have to work extra hard to let your partner know that you still find him or her her attractive.
The third person
Do you flirt with other men or women in front of your partner? If you do this consistently, you can't blame them for feeling insecure. There is nothing wrong with harmless flirting but when you're in a relationship, devote all your attention to your partner.
Insecurities can destroy a relationship and the smallest situation can spark a series of unwanted mishaps. So, avoid losing a person you really like, address the issues and move on!
=] The cOoL gUyz Used tO called me LOSER back then are College undergrads or not even a college student!, and became parents early.. so who's a LOSER now huh!? iM abOut tO graduate in 1 yr =] at least behind all my selfishness (you know what i'm talking about) im still kicking in schOol thanks to my Parents=] i'm thinking after my Ba psychology i want to take law or medicine ( psychiatrist) something to do with being a Forensic psychiatrist whatever. what the hell is Forensic psychiatrist?? lemme help you with that question Forensic psychiatrists work with courts in evaluating an individual's competency to stand trial, defenses based on mental diseases or defects (e.g., the "insanity" defense), and sentencing recommendations. There are two major areas of criminal evaluations in forensic psychiatry. These are Competency to Stand trial (CST) and Mental State at the Time of the Offence, =] owww God
anu yan!?! haha bata palang ako gusto ko ng maging stage actress kaso naging "STRESS" lng ang lahat sa akin! haha hindi umayon ang entablado sa kagustuhan ko, nung high school ako sinama lng ako ng tropa ko para mag audition sa "theatro De tanza"
late pa nga kmi dumating eh 8 ang call time anung oras na kmi pumunta,
sa kadahilanan KINUKUMBINSI pa nya ko na sumama
(bkit kamo!?) akala ko ba panagarap ko to! haha binaon ko na kc sa limot
ang munting pangarap ko,
pero sa huli nakumbinsi nya pa din akO!
so ayun late latetan ang drama namiN! putcha! ang dami kaya OMG!
pero masyo yung workshop na yun =] lumabas din yung tinatgo kong Talento!..
pero hndi naging legal sa school yun theatro eh
pero nag peperform pa din kmi sa schooL.. oh db USER ang schOol namin!.
haha nag JESUS CHRIST SUPER STAR pa nga kmi eh, pero
assistant fLor chuva lng kmi, astig hawak ko yun scrip, =] ang saya..
KAhit madaming IntrIga abOut sa mga roles nila.. palakasan naman kc tLga..
as iN.. so ayun after graduation naging legal na THEATRO AGUSTINO!
gago! lng yung mga yun kmi original nun eh ugh!
so ngayong college wala na tlGa pag asa ang panagrap kong mganing
STAGE ACTRESS! oha.. =]
LAWYER nLNG =] Oh kya PSYCHIATRIST
oha.. =]
mga reactIoN ng MGA iskoLAr!
interesting yung mga sinasbi nila.. my point..
=]
1. Tanggalin si Marcos----magkakaroon nang Pagbabago...
aba pagbabago nga---
di na crony...Kamag-Anak Inc.
di na gutumin ang magsasaka...barilin na lang sa Mendiola...
hindi na CHDF (Civilian Home Defense Force)---pinalitan na lang nang CAFGU
kaso same dog different collar
tumaas pa nga presyo nang galunggong eh...
Palitan ang lider = Pagbabago?????
2. Palitan Erap = Pagbabago....
Di na uso sugalan-----papuntahin na lang lahat sa abroad....
Kung may Jose Velarde----meron naman ngayon Jose Pidal.....
Kung may Boracay Mansions- meron naman ZTE millions....
Palitan and Lider = Pagbabago...
napakasimpleng isipin....
kay hirap gawin...
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moral revolution ang kailangan natin! consolation prize na lang ang pagkakatalsik kay GMA. sa tingin ko mahirap gawin ito (BIKOYSKI) kasi walang gustong maninidigan sa mismong morality na kinakailangan umangat at magtagumpay.
hindi alam ng mga tao kung kaninong morality ang pinaka magbibigay ng mas magandang solusyon sa dilemang ito.
the fact na nanawagan ng resignation base sa kawalan ng moral integrity ay nag papatunay lamang na hindi kumbinsido ang tao na may morally good na after effect ang pagkakatangal kay GMA .
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purpotedly, allegedly, suspected..puro naman speculations...bring those involved in court so they can be prosecuted. as for GMA, let her finish the term and then sue her in court like an ordinary citizen. ang hirap kasi ng mga naniniwala kay lozada blindly. wala namang solid evidence to prove in court. puro dakdak lang sa kalsada. if this is the call of ateneo, i have never been more ashamed to be called atenean. even if GMA resigned, the system is stilll the same.
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pano ka naman makakasigurado na maayos na ang gobyerno kapag naalis na si gloria? di ba parang ganito din yung kay erap dati? pag natanggal si erap eh maayos na ang gobyerno through gloria. not everything is resolved through resignation and "EDSA revolution".. binoto niyo yung tao, panindigan nyo ang desisyon nyo
[this one really caught my attention tama ka sister!]
Why We Should Call for Arroyo's Resignation
We have achieved moral certainty that there is enough basis to call for resignation.
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NBN-ZTE deal |
| There is an obvious, deliberate attempt to hide truth from the public about the anomalous circumstances surrounding the ZTE contract. Despite testimonies by Jun Lozada and Joey de Venecia pertaining to direct involvement of the President and by FG, Malacanang's only response was to invoke EO 464 and refuse to disclose records of the ZTE deal. |
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Hello Garci |
| Comelec officials have not been punished for glaring anomalies in the last presidential elections. Despite evidence showing Arroyo intervening by talking to a Comelec Commissioner, and an admission from Arroyo herself of doing so, justice still has not been served. |
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Extrajudicial killings |
| The administration has not answered for its involvement and continues to coddle implicated personalities like Gen. Palparan. International institutions, such as Amnesty International, have condemned the administration for, at the least, gross negligence resulting to the deaths of hundreds. |
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Other unanswered anomalies |
| The Fertilizer Fund scam exposed by Jocjoc Bolante, who explained how funds were diverted to Arroyo's 2004 campaign. The North Rail project, wherein the Philippine government purportedly lost hundreds of millions of pesos on an overpriced contract. The Telecoms Franchise Bill, where FG allegedly asked for a 50-million peso bribe for the President to lift her veto. |
Moral certainty is different from legal certainty.
| Demanding evidence to meet legal certainty falls prey to the rhetoric of the Arroyo administration. Clearly, the law was framed to enable trust in the government by its people. In this situation, that trust has been breached. Legal certainty is not the absolute barometer for deciding when people should engage in protest action against a specific regime. Moral repugnance justifies a call for new, more credible leadership. |
Meaningful reform is impossible under the Arroyo administration.
| Efforts to institute reform have been co-opted. The Ombudsman is appointed by the administration and is perceived to be largely pandering to Arroyo's interest. The DOJ is run by Raul Gonzalez, who has proven to be extremely loyal to Arroyo. Laws like the anti-plunder law and institutions like the PAGC have been unable to hold the administration and its officials to task.
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| The current corruption problem is not a problem of legislation. While the existing laws are essential, and proposed ones like the Access to Information Bill can empower the citizenry in their desire to improve government accountability, they need to be accompanied by public confidence in the government's commitment and willingness to implement them. Corruption is an issue of leadership. Massive distrust in the highest official signifies that government is no longer perceived as effective in discharging its duties. This negativity only harms the nation in the long-run. |
The logic that we should wait for other people to make up their minds or come out with more evidence is erroneous.
| This is a chicken and egg argument. If we all take a lead, it becomes easier for institutions, like the CBCP, to heed our call. It also becomes easier for people with pertinent information to come out. |
The potential ineptitude of the succeeding administration is not an excuse to allow an illegitimate regime to stay in power.
| Should Noli de Castro become the President, the challenge is for the citizenry not to disengage simply because they achieved the goal of Arroyo's resignation, which was civil society's folly post-EDSA 2. |
A military takeover will not necessarily follow from a call for resignation.
| There was no military takeover when calls were made for Estrada to resign. |
| Military adventurism has never worked without popular support, as evidenced by Oakwood and Manila Peninsula. |
We believe that the removal of the Arroyo administration presents a crucial opportunity to institute reforms and changes to which this current administration has been deaf. A call for resignation is not only constitutional, but more importantly, moral.
1. For effect- or for emphasis---in court when lawyers present witnesses, and the witness cries- the lawyer will say "witness is crying"- as if to say his client who is crying is telling the truth.
2. Well it must have hurt- like maybe Lozada is thinking- "Dang because of this I won't have a share in that damn deal- I wonder why Joey have to spill the beans, oh well might as well pick some crumbs" Life as he knew it- ended- so he's grieving.
3. The truth hurts- well not exactly that he's telling the truth- the truth here could be he finally accepts his a part of corruption, one of its benefactors and now one of its detractors
4. To gain sympathy. Well this is more likely. The effect is that the public will not think much about what he's really saying could be reason for his reason "school and campus" tour which might become a mall tour
5. He may have been coached or told to cry. Take note that not everyone who tells the truth cries some even look ridiculous while saying it.
6. Well it could be withdrawal symptom- if he did some bad things as he admitted and he could no longer do them anymore- crying could mean a way of letting go. (corollary to no. 2)
7. To make a scene or a spectacle? When a person talks you may simply listen but if he cries- you may want to see if he's really sobbing.
8. To relieve himself of the intense pressure? Could be releasing fear- could be fear from the pressure exerted to him.
9. He has onions well chopped onions under his seat- (ah this is just a joke, I'm kidding ok?)
10. Since there's nothing to laugh about might as well cry....hmmmm
nakakaaLarma. . gulay concerned citizen reporting! nakakataKot may mga balibalita d2 sa lugar namin na nag kaka dukutan na ng mga bata nakuuu hindi lang pala bata hangang 20 years old kinukuha din, hndi pa matiyak kung ano ang main reason's nila. naku nakakatakot naman, nag papangap pa yung iba na madre para makakuha ng mga bata, yung iba sa pilitan nilng kukunin at ilalagay sa VAN, (VAN NA WHITE) tas yung iba cnsabi nila na HINAHANAP sila ng nanay or tatay nila.. my sister told me knina na may nkita daw na bata sa naic na wala na yung "MATA" and may 10k sa bibig morbid db. binyaran yung bata tsk tsk, then kuya amiel naman sa my island cove daw kinuha yung organs sa tyan at may 25k sa lOob grabe hndi ito makatarungan! we really need justice for this kind of crap! (ang sbi ng iba at ng matatanda kinukuha daw ung blood ng mga bata para ilagay sa ginagwang kalye) tama ba yan! and daming pedeng blood na gamitin andyn ang manok, baboy, baka, etc HAYOP! HAYUP na mga taoNg gumgwa nyan! mga walang pUso mukang PERA PUTANGINA NILA! hndi pa nag simatay! sana mabanga sila tangina nila!
last Saturday morning, maaga kmi pumasok dahil finals namin sa PE, 8am sa daang amaya habang nkatayo kmi ni bebei at iniintay namin si tania may pumarang "VAN" sa harap namin at sinasakay kmi LOTON daw sbi namin HINDI PO, ayaw nilang umalis sa harap namin tapos BACLARAN daw, TANGinang yan sbi nga namin HINDI PO MANONG, ang kulit! nya! sobra nag kakatinginan na kmi ni bebei, ang nkkpag taka PRIVATE VEHICLE, uuber tinted pa, nakakatakot! yun ah! PUTANGINA NILA.. muntikan na kmi ni bebei dun ah! nakwento ko yung nagyari sa amin ni bebi kina mama, ngayon bawala na kong gumala at gabihin ng uwi bute nlng mag susumer break na.. haaayy...
my gulay anu ba yan girl.,.
because there was theyre
they was the 1
who's very haha oh im so sorry. um my pamily, my family
oh my god. ok.. im so sorry i told u that im so confident
eto am wait hahahaahah
um sorry guys bec this was really my pers pageant everrr
because im only 17 yo & ahah
i did not expect that i came from, i came from one of the tafff10.
mmm so.. but i said dat my family is the most impt persons in my life.. thank you
grabbed fROm BNO mutiply.. i wasnt able to catch their show dammit!
For those who didn't catch last night's show. A 15 year old girl named Camille called asking for tickets! We promised her tickets to Maroon 5 if the guy she wanted to bring said YES!
Unfortunately he had tickets already and didn't bother to tell her that he was going with his cousins! So we asked her to call her mom, she called her mom and was SCOLDED for being on the phone so late! Her mom said she couldn't go to the concert even if we gave her FREE Tix cause Araneta is too far from Las Pinas and that no one will take her! Poor Camille.
We wanna know the most embarrassing moment your parents did to you? or one thing you'll never forgive your parents for?...
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mybe nOt kc under age pa sya right!? hey Camille doNt woRrY its aLl gOod.. o-O
stressing paper works! Dra. Baron told us yesterday its just a "BAPTISM of FIRE" whaaaaat!? oh boy! more essay, research and more more DRa. BAROn oh well this past few days chocolate and candies became my best friends, my buddies from my sleepless nights, i love chocolates =] yummy chocolates! kisses, toblerone, hershey's black choco! deym! i bought a joe breaker and gummy worms yummy.. ^^
my bestfriends..
my own definition of FRiendship =]
what mistake you will make in the future, they love you for who you are and encourage you to be the BEST that you can be"
bLu9 sisters
obviously kulang kmi
missing in action
phet
grace
grace2
QARLA..
i miss you all
isa sila sa MGa nagIng takbuhan KO
when im down,bLockm8 for 2 years..
Uber daming memories with them..
same people pero na dagdagan ^^
sila leli jut and jhen
jhen, len tina, hanna and moi
last summer =]
oh db halatang singit ako.. hehe
for me being friends with you guyz is a lifetime bond,. a divine affiliation ^^
i dont need a occasion or a reason to thank y'all for your support..
anyway congratulations to all of you guyz..
graduation is fast approaching tlgang maiiwan na ko.. ^^
i'll see yoU guyz in yer GraduatioN ^^
heLLow I'm still alive I've been busy this past few weeks.. darn it! to much paper works, projects, major "QUIZ", cramming for deadlines!pLusssss reports, i just cant wait for our summer break yesssh, ok ok here are the picture from my busy sched..
cramming for my report in theories of personality
again and again, specialty ko na ata ang cramming eh
Thursday, feb 28, 2008
bad penmanship eynah! haha and i'm starting tO
hate GEorge kelly! haha
friday, feb 29, 2008
DEVELOPMENTAL PSYCHOLOGY
thank God
march 1, 2008
we had our NSTP. [nstp padin!?] yeaa hindi kc na credit
yung last nstp ko sa CEU,
we held a feeding for day care pupils in brgy 43.
my groupmates
ipagpapa2loy....
oK oK this thIng kinda freaking me Out.. Omg!
how you feel about yourself now (The Devil)
You are feeling that the temptation of a certain relationship, pastime or other form of pleasure is too hard to resist - its almost addictive. Question your motives, these sorts of situations aren’t generally good news. You may also have rather low self esteem at this time and feel that there’s not much hope for the future - don’t doubt your abilities, try to be more positive. Think carefully, you can still change direction.
what you most want at this moment (The Hierophant)
The cards suggest brattyeynah, that what you most want at this time is to have someone around you that you can trust and confide in, knowing that they won’t let you down. There are moral issues here, knowing right from wrong, and you may feel that you need some advice or wise counsel from a teacher, priest, parent or someone you have a lot of respect for, in order to help you make the right decision.
your fears (Strength)
You are fearful of lacking the will power and strength to deal with someone or something that concerns you. Feeling negative and listening to all your fears will only cause failure and lost opportunities. Be as brave as a lion but work compassionately and you’ll be fine.
what is going for you (The Sun)
The Sun is shining on you, it's your time for success, joy and happiness. You will feel confident and full of vitality. It's a time to celebrate with friends and loved ones, perhaps enjoy a well-earned holiday, a time of pleasure and good news around children or the conception or birth of a longed-for baby. If you are not feeling this way take heart, you will enter this period soon.
what is going against you (The Moon)
You are frozen with fear, lack of nerve and confused as to what it is you actually want. You are allowing all your fears and anxieties to hold you back when you should be opening your mind to new and unexpected possibilities. You do need to be careful however, as there are deceitful people around who may seem charming but are only out for their own gains. If in a clandestine affair beware, your secret may be exposed.
outcome (Judgement)
A time for taking stock, an end to an era or phase of your life and brand new opportunities appearing. An opportunity will present itself that must not be ignored and it could have far reaching implications, changing your life for the better. You will enjoy success and enjoyment for past efforts, events will pick up a pace and the outcome will be quicker than expected.
sounds like what ma'am baron told me haha, yea its true i dont really trust my self that much, sometimes i think I m not doing any good, yea i have to learn to trust my self, to overcome my weaknesses, my fears like "rejections" oh boy this is going to be tough...
trusting my self.......................
in progress
stage 1
my sister go a "PIT BULL" as in oMG! Dogs of this breed are known for their strength, loyalty, and "gameness" (tenacity)pit bull can be very sweet, curious, intelligent, and clownish. They are noted for their outgoing, affectionate, eager-to-please disposition and their fondness for people, and when raised with a firm but fair hand can make a wonderful family pet, BUT they Can be also stubborn, pushy, and prone to display aggression towards other dogs. They are not a good choice of dog for a novice dog owner.
i really cant imagine my self talking to Moggy coz i am scared so scared, i dont even want to look at moogy with the red eyes and big mouth omg! but actually i did talk to moogy earlier, laugh at it!! im not really a dog lover,But when i was a kid i used to have a dog named brownie nice name huh!? all i can remember about brownie is big brown dog like scooby doo, brownie died for being old yeaa sad.. then after many years our neighbor gave as an "askal" my daddy gave the name JACKAL, funny weird name.. haha then brownie came (Japanese spitz), see im not expose to dogs haha. but now im in the stage of liking moggy!
i am sexy!
23,AB Psychology Graduate, writer, dreamer, lover, faithful woman, loyal friend ...more?
